hurting but having

i was on the phone with someone.  and for the nth time, he was taking issue with this certain criterion i've set for my next (and last) guy.

we've gone through this so many times before.  he has never been able to convince me.  i have never been able to convince him.

and then for the first time, he posed this question:  'which hurts more, hearing (unpleasant) things because of the one you love or not being able to have the one you love?'

ouch!  i've never really thought of things that way before.

i sure would love to change my stand... but things are not that simple.

sad...

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