his and hers

i was supposed to generate a MomentCam avatar for a male friend and was surprised to see that the hairstyle choices were the usual options i see for a female.  wahaha...  i unintentionally picked female as gender in the previous step!

back to square one.

anyway, i noticed that in the app's new (october 14, 2021) version, the bald 'hairstyle' is already available for female avatars.  i dunno whether it's because of my suggestion.

i sent email last july 23 requesting them to add the bald 'hairstyle' for women.  (there are templates where i don't want hair to show, e.g. templates already with fixed hair or those with certain hats or headpieces, but i have had to make do with some hair because the avatar could not be assigned a bald head.)  i moreover said, "better yet, please make the men's hairstyles available for women, too."

well, the latter does not appear (yet?) but bald is available now.

one gender stereotype down 😊

to each his own

friend sent me a pic of his cat lying on his iPad.

i went, 'aw...  it might get scratched!'

he said the iPad has gorilla glass and the cat's nails are trimmed.

i replied if it were me, i still wouldn't allow it.  "develop good habits."

he said simple joy for his cat so ok with him.

well, as long as it doesn't affect mine, he can pile all his pets on his gadgets all he wants and i won't stop him.

your gadgets, your rules. 😊

regain control of compromised facebook account

how to regain control of your compromised facebook / messenger account:

assumptions:
- you are still logged in
or
- you can still log in
to yout facebook account.

while logged in in facebook:

1.  CHANGE YOUR PASSWORD
1.1.  Menu (hamburger icon / three stacked horizontal lines icon / gear icon)
1.2.  Settings & Privacy
1.3.  Settings
1.4.  Password and Security
1.5.  Change password
1.6.  Current password

1.7.  New password
1.8.  Re-type new password
1.9.  Update password

2.  LOG OUT ALL SESSIONS
2.1.  Menu
2.2.  Settings & Privacy
2.3.  Settings
2.4.  Password and Security
2.5.  Where You're Logged In
2.6.  See All
2.7.  Log Out of All Sessions
2.8.  Log Out

opposite

friend telling me his cat is always gnawing at its tail so he put tabasco sauce on the tail.  well, contrary to his intent, instead of making the cat stop it all the more persisted.  the cat liked the hot sauce!

wahaha...  deterrent turned incentive...  sometimes life throws you a curveball ⚾

prevail

to some people, being kind means tolerating their obnoxious behavior.

to some people, keeping the peace means keeping silent when they do bad.

to some people, moving on means forgetting context and turning a blind eye to their ceaseless wrongdoing.

you don't give wrongdoers a run of the place.
you stand your ground.

you don't give up because the bad are stubborn.
you build resistance.

for evil to triumph all anyone has to do is nothing.