not needed but wanted

friend:  'who's going with you?'

me:  'no one...  just me...'

friend:  'you'll be alone?!'

me:  'yes... this is my fifth time already...'

friend:  'where is that?'

me:  'almeria...  plane to tacloban then 4 hours by land to get to the place...'

friend:  'i remember you've mentioned that to me before...'

me:  'yup...  i go there once a year...  this is my fifth now...'

friend:  'why do you go there?'

me:  'to visit my <second mom>...  she was the one who took care of us since i was a baby...  she retired in 2009 and i've been visiting her since...'

friend:  'and how did you go the first time?'

me:  'i was also by myself...  i just asked around...  remember when we were at <place> and i was telling you i can manage?  i was just thinking i lived alone for 4 years...  i went to almeria by myself and i didn't even know the place...  i can handle manila...  but of course i am thankful you accompanied me...'

just because i can go it alone does not mean i want to go it alone.  it's definitely nicer to have someone with you.  i'm no damsel in distress but i still want my knight...  :")

a half-price treat wholeheartedly given

at starbucks for the repeat of their 'frappuccino treat for two' promo...

me:  'ei...  there's no queue...'

cashier:  'later, ma'am...  you were just first...'

me:  'oh...  it's not obvious i'm excited, hehe...'

promo's from 2 p.m. to 5 p.m.  my receipt timestamp's 2:06 p.m.  hey, i missed the first one!  i was at the service station that time having my friend's car oil-changed.  the ones i informed, even my friend whose car i was attending to that time, were able to avail themselves of the promo.

i'm not a coffee drinker actually.  but if it's buy-one-get-one then i get excited, haha.  i bought for my mom.  ain't i sweet?  and cheap...  ;")

trading places

me:  'starbucks is bringing back the 'frappuccino treat for two' promo...  they're having it tomorrow and tuesday [july 8 and 9]...  i wasn't able to make it last time but my sister and her officemate did...'

friend:  'me, too...'

me:  'you, too?'

friend:  'yes...  oh, wasn't i able to tell you?'

me:  'no!'

friend:  'you were the one who sent me a voucher...'

me:  'look at that, there i was at the service center waiting forever for YOUR car's flushing and change oil to finish and there you were at starbucks having a frap...'

save and be saved

an asiana flight from seoul crash-landed at the san francisco international airport yesterday.

i was struck by this post from author and facebook COO sheryl sandberg saying she and her family were originally supposed to take said flight but switched to united so they could use miles for her family's tickets.

not to make light of the situation but i was just thinking, in this instance, you did not just save on the (mileage) freebie, the freebie saved you.

my mornyt

me:  'return this to me, ok...  that's donna karan...'

friend:  'i don't know her...'

me:  'hehe...  you're not high end...'

friend:  'i go for function not name...'

me:  'me, too...  i didn't buy that, it was just given to me...'

: )

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smell of doughnuts wafted in the air...

friend:  'you like j. co?'

me:  'i just like dunkin's bavarian and original glazed by krispy kreme...  but i'm not really a doughnut girl...'

friend:  'oh...  you're not a 'do not' girl?'

me:  'haha...  i'm nike...  just do it...'

\m/

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telling my friend about this someone whose actuations i didn't like...

friend:  'the guy's just playing cute...'

me:  'he shouldn't...'

friend:  'that's his right...'

me:  'you shouldn't play cute anymore when you're married...'

friend:  'it's just playing cute!'

me:  'well, you're already married so you play cute with your wife not with other women...'

friend:  'where is that written?  is that in the law?'

me:  'well, ok...  you can play cute with others but not with me...'

\m/

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having krushers...  my feel-good food...

me:  'i'm so happy...'

friend:  'i got a haircut...'

me:  'huh?!  what did i say?'

friend:  'that you're happy...'

me:  'what did you say?'

friend:  'that i got a haircut...'

me:  'what's the connection?'

friend:  'nothing...  i'm just telling you that i got a haircut after dropping you off...'

me:  'oh...  sorry i didn't notice...  how much is your haircut?'

friend:  'P40...'

me:  '40?'

friend:  'plus P40 tip so P80...'

me:  'you tip as much as the haircut?'

friend:  'i wasn't able to tip last time so i just gave it now...'

me:  'haha... what's this, retirement?  lump sum...'

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me:  'what time is it?'

friend:  '1...'

me:  'it's 1 a.m.?!'

friend:  'yes...'

me:  'aw...  you still have a meeting this morning...'

friend:  'it's ok...  i already know what i'm going to say...'

me:  'what?'

friend:  'these are what we'll prioritize because they're the ones in the lineup...'

me:  'that's all?'

friend chuckles:  'yes...'

me:  'hehe...  that'll be your sole contribution in the meeting?'

friend:  'that's really how it's supposed to be so what else should i say?'

me:  'why don't you just record it then send it to them so you don't have to wake up early?'

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me:  'you're sleepy...'

friend:  'do i look sleepy?'

me:  'well, i'm sleepy so i'm assuming you're sleepy, too, because you're even more of a sleepyhead than me...'

friend:  'i get sleepy after eating...'

me:  'oh?  you're sleepy even if you haven't eaten anything...'

friend:  'haha...  i noticed i'm like that with people i'm comfortable with...'

me:  'what do you mean?'

friend:  'you're already at ease with someone so it's ok to doze off...'

me:  'hello...  you've been like that from the time i met you...  you kept on dozing off...  we barely knew each other then!'

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