my not so simple night/morning

i was ***supposed to***  have a simple night last night.



around 7:30 pm i walked over to a friend's house where i was supposed to help her upload some pictures.  while there, she called up a high school batchmate she also wanted to come over.  it turns out two other batchmates were at that batchmate's house.  not wanting to bring two unexpected guests to my friend's house, she invited us over to her house instead.  i balked saying i had parked my car at my parents' place.  my friend, who has a car but stopped driving a long time ago, said she'll ask her housemate to bring us to our batchmate's house.  i said we didn't really need to be bothering anyone as we could just stay put in her place.  our other batchmate, however, kept on insisting we go to her house.  i kept on declining until she offered to fetch us at my friend's place.  i was so touched that she was willing to do that so i gave in saying it would be better for me to walk back to my parents' place to get my car instead of her coming over from a not so near place to fetch us.



when i got to my parents' place, my mom asked whether i again have a meeting.  i said our high school reunion's over so no more meetings.  i suppose she then assumed my friend and i were already done uploading pics and i was going home already.  my dad even told me to call my mom once i got home.  i said my phone was still not working.  he told me to text her instead.  well, i did not as my friend and i were at our batchmate's place up to 1 am : }



past 1 am as i was driving past the intersection of C5 and kalayaan ave. i noticed the  blinking oil and battery indicators on my dashboard.  my battery is fairly new and my oil i regularly have checked when i gas up so i wondered what could be up  (yup, simply wondered.  looking back, i don't know why through all this i did not really get nervous or anything.)



i managed to get to bonifacio high street where my car first stalled.  i restarted the engine with the thought that i had to get to the house asap.  i coasted along then at the first bend, stalled again.  i restarted again and then right after turning the corner to mckinley, stalled for the third time.



that's when i decided to open my hood.  i checked the water and it was ok.  nevertheless, i still poured some in.  i was supposed to check my oil and realized i didn't know how to fill it up, horrors.  all i knew was you pull out  a stick to check it -> i did, but i didn't really bother to get a reading.  what i actually intended to do was put some oil in but ended up wondering how on earth i could pour oil through that tiny, tiny opening where the stick goes through.  (goodness, i started driving in college and only now realize that i am oh so ignorant about car stuff!)  i got my flashlight and tried to see where oil was supposed to be poured in.  i was able to locate it but then, i couldn't open the lid!  (funny but what crossed my mind was the instance i had to settle for peanut butter because i couldn't open the lid of a cheese spread.)



i decided to text a friend to be on standby in case i am not able to get the car to the house.  times like this i thought i should be bothering first either my dad or my brother but i couldn't as my parents think i was already home hours before : }



i tried to restart the car, it did.  i drove again.  only then did i notice the overheating indicator : }



i stopped and drove and stopped and drove a couple more times until my car stalled again approaching a well-lit lit area.  i again opened the hood and again tried to unsuccessfully open the oil lid.  just then a guy in a motorcyle passed by the opposite lane.  he went past my car then made a u-turn to help me : )  he was able to open the lid and told me my oil was actually full.  he asked whether it was just an overheat and said if so just wait awhile before i restart.  he asked where i was going and i said home which was near already.  he asked me to restart the car, it did, and we waved each other off as i drove toward our village.



my not so simple night ended with my car making it to my garage but not before i experienced the kindness of a stranger in the drizzly wee hours of this morning.  i did not get his name and he never got mine but, whoever and wherever he is, i'd like him to know that i am really, really thankful : )

the ring on my finger

thrice this month i've been asked, "how come you're still wearing your wedding ring?"

the latest was just last night at our high school reunion by no less than pido jarencio, my high school batchmate  ->  ha-ha... a little name-dropping there... hi, pido : )

anyway, thrice, too, i had to explain that the ring on my finger is actually not my wedding band but a tricolor i-love-you ring given me by my mom years back when i was still single.

i don't know but the question and my reply has made me realize that no matter what rings i may start or, contrary to my hopes and expectations, stop wearing, my mom's i-love-you ring will always be one ring i could go back to anytime and won't ever have to refrain from wearing.  such a comforting and heartwarming thought...

i love you, mom... thank you for the ring... thank you for your love... thank you for everything... : )

his joyful presence

i had a joint birthday celebration with a high school batchmate last night (up to the wee hours this morning :o). so batchmates were arriving one by one greeted with the usual, hi, hello, how are you... suddenly, one batchmate arrives and there were shrieks and excited HI!!!!!!!!!!!!-HELLLOOOOOOOO!!!s. i was about to conclude he was our most popular batchmate when i realize the excitement was due as much (?) to his presence as to the presence of a platter of cold cuts goodies in his hands.



ah, batchmates...



; )

the logic of sisters...

my car is coding tuesdays (here in the philippines, that means it has to be off the road from 7 am to 7 pm) so mondays i sleep over at my parents' place then ride with my brother to and from the office the following day.



this morning, my brother dropped me off at the office as usual. after office, i am surprised to see him walking, instead of driving, toward our building to pick me up. it turns out he forgot the keys inside the vehicle. no problem, we take a cab. he'll just come back for the vehicle later.



on our way, we fetch our neighbor (same office as mine) and then my sister (nearby office) who both regularly ride with him home.



in the cab, i was seated at the rear, behind the driver. i was looking out the window when i see an officemate in the jeepney in front. i break out in a wide smile and enthusiastically wave at her. now, what do you know... the guy beside her smiles and waves back at me.



i blurt out, "yikes! so embarrassing! the guy thought i was waving at him!"



my sister so coolly retorts, "oh, that's ok. he's cute anyway..."



talk about logic... :}

thoughtful ; )

last friday, i attended a meeting at a batchmate's house.  those of us present have already taken our fill of the generous spread on the table and were just having small talk while waiting for the meeting to formally start.  after a while, i went:  'may darating pa ba?'

batchmate2:  'si <toot>.'

me:  'sino pa?'

batchmate2:  'siya na lang.'

me:  'may kasama siya?'

batchmate2:  'mag-isa lang.'

me:  'wala nang iba pang darating aside from <toot>?'

batchmate2:  'wala na.'

me (looking at the 2 pieces of chicken left on the plate):  'puwede akin na lang 'yung isa pang chicken?'

natawa si <batchmate2>...