forgotten

an officemate asked me whether i've been to a gay bar.

i said yes.

she went, 'i mean a real gay bar... not the one on your shower...'

me:  yup... 'twas a real gay bar... i think it was (well known gay bar name)... weren't we together that time?

officemate:  no.

me:  hmmm... i'm sure i was with officemates...

the thing is, i could not recall which officemates brought me there and i also could not recall that there was a stripper in my bridal shower.  what more, i could not recall anything about my bridal shower.  ugh!  i am old...  : }